Do You Love Your Theology More Than Your God?

PC Alisha Mullett

I believe many of us have been doing church all wrong. I’ve grown up in churches where doctrine and behavior are the two deciding factors by which our relationship with God is determined. But is that as it should be? I don’t claim to have such wisdom or theological understanding that surpasses all others. Definitely not. But recently, I was listening to a speaker, and God impressed on my heart how we as the church have majorly messed up with our focus over the years. This includes my own.

Please know that my intent in writing this blog is not to  prove my point, but rather for us to be open to God’s voice. Would you just ask God to show you if there’s any way He wants to challenge or encourage you through my feeble attempts to grow in His likeness? And if you believe these concepts are in violation with God’s word, please pray that God will continue to form me more into His likeness and reveal His truth.

I believe we often get side tracked by the enemy on “important issues” without getting to the heart of the issue. One of these areas is the debate of eternal security. Satan wants us to focus on whether we have eternal security, rather than on what determines our eternal destiny.

Where we will spend our eternity is not determined on how well we understand the scriptures or by how many good works we do. Our eternal security is based on much more than that. Let’s see what God’s word says about what our greatest focus should be.

Matthew 22:36-40 says, “Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

In this passage, Jesus was cutting to the heart of what it meant to be Jewish. I believe He was saying, “Correct theology is useless without love for God.”

Now Jesus wasn’t saying that the Law wasn’t important anymore or that the lives of the prophets were insignificant. The Law is what governed their behavior. It represented what they DID.

And what about the prophets? I believe they represented Israel’s spiritual relationship with God. They were the voice of God to keep Israel on track. It is helpful to think of the Law and the prophet in this way. The Law had to do with the outward, while the prophets had to do with the inward. Both were vital.

Between these two, Israel’s whole relationship to God was governed. Yet Jesus changed the entire focus of their religious practice when He states that something else was even more important and of greater significance.

PC Alisha Mullett

Jesus said the Law and the prophets hangs on something else. The Law and the prophets are both important, but without loving God, they are both null and void. On the other hand, everything will be balanced and in order when our doctrine is hinged on loving God and loving others. If we focus on what is the most important, the other two will fall into place.

Within the body there are often many disagreements regarding eternal security, faith and works, and eschatology. But I believe we are missing the point when we’re focusing on these side issues rather than on how well we are loving God and others. If Jesus says our most important focus is loving God, why aren’t we focusing on that? Why aren’t we having discussions on social media about how to love God in a deeper way? We end up having problems when we do not hang our Christianity on these two commandments.

Doctrine and behavior are certainly both important. We need to know what we believe, and we need to walk in holiness and obedience to God’s word. But remember, if our doctrine isn’t hung on these two commandments, it’s not enough. It’s invalid. And this type of “religion” will always hurt those around us.

True, biblical Christianity is when our very relationship with God is determined by our love for Him and our love for others.

In reality, those who are focusing on obeying God’s commands without truly loving Him are falling short. How well are you and I loving God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength at this moment? Are we allowing Him to speak into our life? When we continue loving Him, we will never have to worry about “losing our salvation” or wondering whether our works are enough. But one must ask, how can I know if I am truly loving God? God’s word clearly tells us. Read it and allow Him to show you if you’re loving Him.

John 10:27 says, “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father’s hand. I and my Father are one.” 

God gives us earthly relationships so we can better understand heavenly relationships. Do you quit loving your spouse every time you demonstrate an unloving action? Of course not. Do we lose our salvation every time we sin?

PC Alisha Mullett

Of course not. But here’s the next question. Can you say you love your spouse if your actions develop a pattern or lifestyle of being unloving? What if you begin having adulterous relationships? Wouldn’t we all agree that there comes a time when we’d say it’s obvious you don’t love your spouse any more? The same is true in our relationship with Father God. Just because I love Him today, doesn’t mean I will continue loving Him the rest of my life. (I wish it would!) Loving God is a continual daily choice.

So let’s take a deeper look into the condition of our own hearts rather than on outward symptoms. Correct theology alone isn’t enough for a relationship with God. Neither are works. The foundation for our relationship is loving God and loving others.

Guess what happens when we focus wholeheartedly on loving God and loving those closest to us? Correct biblical theology and good works will follow. I don’t care to argue about which theology is correct or what  church standards you’re upholding. But I do care about how well you love God and those around you. Focus on loving God and He will do the rest.

~Cindy Mullett (For The Mullett Family)

“Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent.”

(Rev. 2:4-5)

  • Japheth Weaver
    Posted at 20:57h, 04 October

    I think you are right but those that grow up in
    A conservative Anabaptist caltsure leave conservative
    And think that Christian woman veiling do not
    Matter they know better cause the Bible says this (to those that know to know truth don’t do it they sin & they go agents God’s word & God JUDGE them!

  • Tim burkholder
    Posted at 22:33h, 04 October

    Very good!

  • Lucy Raber
    Posted at 05:43h, 05 October

    Cindy, I give a hearty Amen to the well spoken words here!! It has been an issue of several in the church pushing eternal security, but not sure the Love for God. Other Sun. Eve several fam. were here and had good discussion on this, so I love to see this topic come up!! Love to share w whole church!! ??? Keep on writing ✍️Blessings!!! Lucy

  • Martha Loewen
    Posted at 10:41h, 06 October

    I totally believe that. It has bin a big issue in the churches that they focus is wrong. Thanks Cindy. It’s not wrong to make sure we’ll get to heaven but we need to get more in focus of livening our Lord. Thanks again.

    I’ve bin telling you that my Br. Cornelius Passed away about 19 years ago in the age of 21 years one nephew Dustin about 7 years ago at the age of 16. One niece Ashley 2years ago at the age of 21. And three weeks age my mom Passed away?

  • Rose Bontrager
    Posted at 12:00h, 08 October

    Well said.

  • Jeremy Chupp
    Posted at 15:22h, 10 October

    Hi Guys! Just wanted to affirm you guys about your writings in the newsletters this past year! You are absolutely right on! You teach the Truth and I bless you for that! We’re in it together for Jesus! It makes us targets for the Pharisees but what a blessing to be who Jesus wants us to be! We love Him and each other and all the good things fall into place including our eternal destiny! Amen!

    Freedom Hills

  • Cindy
    Posted at 13:59h, 24 October

    Praise the Lord! Thank you fro the encouragement, my friend.

  • Cindy
    Posted at 14:02h, 24 October

    I’m sorry to hear about all your losses, Martha. May God give you His sufficient grace for each of your moments. Heaven WILL be worth all of our pain and tears.

  • Cindy
    Posted at 14:05h, 24 October

    To God be the glory, Jeremy. Thank you for your words of blessing and for your kingdom work. May each of us end our journeys well and be ready for Jesus’ soon return.

  • Lori
    Posted at 08:51h, 09 November

    I love the way you put this!! It’s SO true! I believe the Devil loves to see churches get side-tracked on “side” issues so that they can’t concentrate fully on living God and others w their heart, soul and mind. It’s all he needs to keep Christians from living effective lives victoriously. Thanks for clarifying some spinning thots in my mind lately and putting into words what really matters. Bless you and your ministry!!

  • Cindy Mullett
    Posted at 13:09h, 12 November

    Thank you for your comment, Lori. Change begins with one person at a time, so my prayer is that I allow God to start this change with me. Let’s be faithful until the end.

  • Aaron Mast
    Posted at 09:32h, 02 July

    So if I understand this correctly, it is OK to sin as long as we rotate through different sins and not just repeat the same sin over? No we dont stop loving the lord when we fall into sin but we are all sinners and if we know that we sinned we need to repent it does not matter whether it is just one sin or multiple. Lets not forget repentance!

  • Cindy Mullett
    Posted at 22:18h, 23 July

    Thank you for your comment, Aaron. I guess I’m not understanding how I communicated that “it’s ok to sin as long as we’re rotating the sins.” The point I was making is that if we focus on loving God, we won’t WANT to sin. (But yes, we will at times fall into sin because we’re fallible humans.) And repentance will most definitely be a vital part of our lives when we truly love the Lord. I’m sorry if I wasn’t clear enough in making this point. Thank you for bringing it to my attention.

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